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Engaged = Stress? It Doesn't Have To

FitSugar — Wed, 28 Mar 2007 13:30:00 PDT

For most of us, we dream about the day when our favorite person, our lover, and best friend in the world will get down on one knee, profess his love, and ask for our hand in marriage. It's all dreamy and wonderful in our minds, but when it actually happens, it's a happy time but filled with stress.

The questions start flying...

"Who's going to be in your wedding party?"
"When are you getting married?"
"Did you pick out your color scheme?"
"Are the groomsmen going to wear tuxes or suits?"
"Where are you going to have the wedding?"
"Will my kids be invited?"
"What's your dress going to look like?"
"Are you going to wear your hair up or down?"
"Are you going to have roses in the bouquets because you know I'm deathly allergic?"

AHHHH!!!! Seriously. What do people think you've been doing for your entire life, planning a wedding? For most of us, we were so concerned with getting engaged, that we never thought much past that.

Just because you are engaged does NOT mean you know every last detail about your future wedding. So enjoy this extraordinary time and don't let other people's nosiness get in the way.

Want to know how to ditch the stress? Then

Politely tell people that you haven't made any decisions yet, that you and your fiancé (awww, you can call him that now) are just enjoying the incredible feeling of being in love. When people start handing you advice, you can always be the nice sweet bride and say "Thanks for your suggestion. I'll think about that when we start planning."
To relax, instead of doing something like a gentle yoga class, choose an hour of pumped up cardio instead. It'll distract you from wedding thoughts.
Get advice from other recent brides. Learn from their mistakes and get tips from someone who knows what you're going through.
Sick of the unsolicited and crazy advice from everyone? Just say "Interesting. I'll have to think about that." It is polite and wonderfully non committal. You committed to your finacé, so you can blow off those silly suggestions that keep coming your way.
Take a trip to the bookstore. Pick up some bride magazines and books about planning a wedding so you'll feel more prepared about making decisions.
Definitely celebrate, but at the same time continue taking care of yourself. As tempting as it is to go out every night toasting your joy with oodles of champagne and brownie sundaes, you still want to eat healthy and stay active. Remember to celebrate in moderation.
When you are ready to start making some decisions about the big day, check out Dear's Wedding Time Line.

They Dated?! Fun Celebrity Couples From the Past!

Lauren Turner — Tue, 14 Feb 2012 07:59:50 PST

Happy Valentine's Day! We've already given you 100 hot celebrity PDA pictures and taken a look at sexy guys saying "I love you" in honor of the holiday, and now we've got fun star matchups from the past. Remember when Seal dated Tyra Banks and Matt Damon went out with Winona Ryder? Click through to see those duos and more celebrity pairs now!

Also, don't forget to check out all of our Valentine's Day coverage across the network.

Celebaby Roundup!

Katie Henry — Mon, 13 Feb 2012 16:00:55 PST

Celebrities had another exciting weekend enjoying time outside and with their families! Jessica Alba visited a park in LA with her daughters while Marion Cotillard strolled through chilly NYC with baby Marcel. Katherine Heigl grabbed lunch with her loves, and Rebecca Gayheart spent the day with Billie Dane - click through to see what they were all up to!

Celebrate Valentine's Day With 100 Hot PDA Pictures!

Katie Henry — Tue, 14 Feb 2012 09:27:04 PST

It's Valentine's Day, and we're celebrating with a look back at some of the hottest celebrity PDA pictures. From sweet kisses and romantic embraces to vacation cuddling and red-carpet cuteness, there are plenty of ways stars show their love. Click through to see Diane Kruger and Joshua Jackson, Rachel McAdams and Michael Sheen, Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes, Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie, and so many more couples share their affection. Also, don't forget to check out all of our Valentine's Day coverage across the network for great gift ideas and sweet treats!

Sweaty and So in Love: Celebrity Couples Who Work Out Together

Leta Shy — Mon, 13 Feb 2012 17:13:14 PST

The couple that plays together, stays together, and the same seems to be true for these celebrity duos who work out together. Keeping fit is a high priority in Hollywood, and these celebrities definitely know how to go from significant other to workout buddy. Take a look at these couples that love to sweat as a pair, whether it's at the gym, on the hills, or on the road!

Sources: INFDaily.com and Bauer-Griffin Online

Celebs Show Off Their Style From the Front Row at NYFW

Hannah Weil — Tue, 14 Feb 2012 09:49:31 PST

Fashion Week is in full swing - as is celebrity attendance. As front-row fixtures and party guests, these styled celebs only further the glamour of New York Fashion Week. Highlights include Rachel Zoe stepping out for Marc Jacobs - a show that drew a bevvy of celebs to the sidelines - while Rachel Roy and Olivia Palermo celebrated Roy's Fall collection in their chicest attire. You never know who you'll see cropping up at Fashion Week - click through to see who else we've spotted thus far.

Celeb Style: Miranda Kerr Looks Pretty in Pink For Valentine's Day

Marisa Tom — Tue, 14 Feb 2012 09:20:00 PST

Looking to keep tonight's Valentine's Day-inspired attire sweet and simple? Study up on Miranda Kerr's polished use of pink via a cool tweed miniskirt. While promoting her Kora Organics skincare line in Sydney, Miranda donned a fresh, sophisticated ensemble - pairing an effortlessly loose-fitting white blouse with a textured peachy-pink skirt - for a pulled-together yet ultrafeminine feel. To finish off this romantic look, just add slick pointy-toed pumps and minimal accessories. Love Miranda's flirty outfit? Shop our key pieces to channel this romantic blouse-skirt combo.

Whitney Houston Funeral Plans

Allie Merriam — Tue, 14 Feb 2012 08:52:14 PST

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The best of Adele's 60 Minutes interview - BuzzFeed
Could Nicolas Cage top the box office? - Rotten Tomatoes
Katharine McPhee on life after American Idol - Wonderwall
Courteney Cox suggests new names for Cougar Town - Lifeline Live
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Johnny Depp Partied With McCartney and Springsteen Post-Grammys

Allie Merriam — Tue, 14 Feb 2012 06:20:09 PST

Miranda Kerr Spreads the Valentine's Love in Sydney

Lauren Turner — Tue, 14 Feb 2012 09:27:34 PST

Miranda Kerr kicked off her Valentine's Day celebrations with an appearance at Australian department store David Jones yesterday. She had her mom Therese on hand as she promoted her skincare line, Kora Organics, greeted fans, and gifted supporters with personalized Valentine's Day cards. Miranda's been in her native Australia all month, and while she's been working during her stay, she's also enjoyed downtime with her family. Miranda, Orlando Bloom, and Flynn relaxed poolside with friends last week, and the trio were back together for lunch just yesterday - Flynn showed off his walking skills during the afternoon outing!

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Pour la Victoire Daina suede pumps - $250.00	Trina Turk Enamel Bangle - $98.00
Rachel Zoe 'Marcia' Stretch Georgette Blouse - $225.00	SUOLI Mini skirt - $85.00
Diane von Furstenberg Bang Patent Pointed-Toe Pump - $325.00	CC Skye Dylan Bracelet - $132.00
Diane von Furstenberg 'Karin' Pleated Tab Shoulder Blouse - $198.00	LOVE MOSCHINO Knee length skirt - $167.00
rsvp Baxter - $20.70	Vince Camuto - Patent Skinny Bracelet - $38.00